Elaine
It’s been over ten years now since I was baptised with our second daughter who was only 3months old at the time.
My conversion I often describe as a process (and it’s still going on). It wasn’t a sudden spur of the moment decision to become Catholic.
I grew up in a (what I call) a non religious environment, sort of anti God in general & sadly very anti Catholic (not for any reason in particular that I can recall).
My first inkling of the majesty of God came seconds after the birth of our first daughter (I had married a Catholic). My husband and I were discussing having our new born daughter baptised, something he was very keen on so I started to ask questions about why it was so important to him that the baptism take place sooner rather than later if at all. This led to some very interesting & lively discussions. I had all the usual comments, let the child decide for herself when she is older & it doesn’t really matter if she is baptised or not, look at me I’m not “christened” and I’m still alive!!
My husband had some very weird idea’s (well that’s what they seemed like to me) as to what he thought would happen to a person if they weren’t baptised & they died.....this was the liveliest of discussions!!! I blurted out this topic at our meeting with our local priest when we went to organise our daughter’s baptism.........his suggestion was in due course (as I had just become a first time mum) that I consider attending the church’s RCIA information evening (which I did). Full of rebellious thoughts I turned up.......I believe that if you want straight answers you ask straight (dare I say blunt) questions......the RCIA team set about asking us why we were there, I responded with something along the lines of “well I want to see what this God of yours is like.”
The team at the time which included Father Kerry set about in a very sincere, honest & open manner to introduce me to the basics of their faith, no question ever went unanswered. If the team felt they didn’t know enough about a topic they would say so & ask if I would like more information at our next meeting or leave it up to me to research the topic of interest to me at that time.
At no time did I feel pressured into following any of the “traditions” of the church as explained by the RCIA team, which I found curious as I had always believed Catholics were out to trap you and make you believe in God or whatever it was that they did. This is definitely NOT what the RCIA is about at all.
It (the RCIA team) is made up of a group of very dedicated parishioners (church members) who feel inspired to come & share their knowledge with others as they journey through their own faith.
I would encourage any of you that attend the enquiry night to ask “those” questions which you have on your mind, no question is too silly or too insignificant to ask, you just need the courage to ask them.
Having travelled this far on my own journey I know that this RCIA team, even though some of the team members are different from when I was in the same position as you (the first inquiry night), they will honour & respect your point of view and seek to share as much as they can with you to help you along your own & very individual journey through life.
I sincerely thank you for having the courage to come along and see what our RCIA program is all about.